You are morally obligated to leave once love fades
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
Long attachment runs in cycles. The feeling thins during a newborn's first year or a long illness, and it often thickens again once the pressure lifts. A rule that mandates departure at the low point guarantees exits during the exact months a partner most needs presence. Promises exist to cover flat stretches. Staying is how the feeling gets rebuilt.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
Lifelong monogamy is the only legitimate relationship model
Infidelity is an automatic dealbreaker, no exceptions
Wanting kids is a legitimate dealbreaker in relationships
Staying friends with an ex is almost always a mistake
Refusing a prenup is emotionally immature, not romantic
The person who cares less holds all the power
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.