The person who cares less holds all the power
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
Playing the one who cares less costs the thing worth having. Withholding warmth to stay ahead trains a person to perform indifference until it becomes real, and the partner who leaves is usually the one who was paying attention. Power that depends on being ready to walk is thin. Nobody builds a decade there. Leverage buys compliance, and it never buys being wanted.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
Money problems end more marriages than cheating does
Always tell someone if their partner is cheating
A relationship without physical attraction is doomed to fail
Work friends are not real friends
Men and women can be just friends
Parenthood is way more romanticized than it deserves
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.