Men and women can be just friends
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
Attraction does not wait for permission. It arrives sideways, in a late conversation or a hard week, and once one person feels it the friendship has a second track running underneath. The other usually knows. Long stretches hold fine, then a breakup or a drink shifts something and the balance is gone. Plenty of people have watched a good friendship end exactly that way.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
Parenthood is way more romanticized than it deserves
True love always fades with time
Successful relationships demand complete honesty, no exceptions
A good relationship beats a good career every time
Small talk holds society together, not deep conversation
Your friends hating your partner is a dealbreaker
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.