A good relationship beats a good career every time
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
Ranking the relationship first is how people talk themselves out of the transfer and the training, out of the hard hours that compound into skill and money. Those years do not wait. Work is also where competence gets built, and competence outlasts any particular person. A partner who leaves takes the shared plans along. A craft stays.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
Small talk holds society together, not deep conversation
Your friends hating your partner is a dealbreaker
Staying together for the kids teaches that love is obligation
Marriage is an outdated institution
Men should always make the first move
Being bothered by a higher-earning partner is a red flag
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.