Marriage is an outdated institution
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
Marriage exists because two people sharing money and a child need a default rulebook when one of them is unconscious or dead. Hospitals ask who decides. Pensions and immigration officers ask who counts. Cohabiting couples assemble that same protection through lawyers, piece by piece, at cost. The vow does work no contract-by-contract arrangement matches. Widowed people learn this fast.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
Men should always make the first move
Being bothered by a higher-earning partner is a red flag
Refusing to get a pet is a valid dealbreaker
Love at first sight is real, not lust
Every friendship is transactional at its core
Soulmates are a destructive romantic myth
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.