Staying together for the kids teaches that love is obligation
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
A twelve-year-old whose parents share a house but sleep apart still comes home to one kitchen, one bedtime, one set of house rules, one grandmother's number on the fridge. What registers is steadiness. Warmth can be quiet and real between people who have stopped being in love. Children copy what gets practised daily: care that outlasts feeling, and an adult who stays.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
Marriage is an outdated institution
Men should always make the first move
Being bothered by a higher-earning partner is a red flag
Refusing to get a pet is a valid dealbreaker
Love at first sight is real, not lust
Every friendship is transactional at its core
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.