Your friends hating your partner is a dealbreaker
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
A friend group meets a partner across a few dinners and reads the surface. Quiet becomes cold. Nervous becomes rude. The hours that actually make a relationship happen where nobody is watching. Friends also carry their own stakes, from lost weekends to an old crush, and a group can settle into a dislike that no later evidence dislodges. The person who leaves on that verdict lives with it alone.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
Staying together for the kids teaches that love is obligation
Marriage is an outdated institution
Men should always make the first move
Being bothered by a higher-earning partner is a red flag
Refusing to get a pet is a valid dealbreaker
Love at first sight is real, not lust
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.