Successful relationships demand complete honesty, no exceptions
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
A partner comes home from a haircut they cannot undo and asks how it looks. Full disclosure of every passing attraction, every unflattering thought at 2am, does not build trust. It transfers the cost of one person's discomfort onto the other. Discretion is a skill. Long marriages run on judgement about timing and about what stays unsaid.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
A good relationship beats a good career every time
Small talk holds society together, not deep conversation
Your friends hating your partner is a dealbreaker
Staying together for the kids teaches that love is obligation
Marriage is an outdated institution
Men should always make the first move
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.