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Money problems end more marriages than cheating does

This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.

  • Pay, and you hold it.
  • Anyone can dethrone you for more.
  • Every claim stays on the record.

No claims on the record.

The other side

Blaming the budget hands every unfaithful spouse an alibi and takes the explanation away from the person who was betrayed. Couples survive debt together. They file joint returns, take second jobs, sell the house, and stay married. Discovery of an affair breaks something structural: the belief that both people were describing the same marriage. Poverty is endured. Betrayal is remembered.

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