Infidelity is an automatic dealbreaker, no exceptions
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
Repair works through a specific sequence: full disclosure, cut contact, and years of tolerating being checked on without complaint. Couples who finish that sequence describe a marriage running on different terms than the first one. Marriages hold. Children keep one household. A blanket rule also throws out a drunken kiss at a wedding alongside a decade-long double life and treats both as the same event.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
Wanting kids is a legitimate dealbreaker in relationships
Staying friends with an ex is almost always a mistake
Refusing a prenup is emotionally immature, not romantic
The person who cares less holds all the power
Money problems end more marriages than cheating does
Always tell someone if their partner is cheating
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.