Wanting kids is a legitimate dealbreaker in relationships
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
Positions on children move. A stated preference at twenty-six comes from a life with no stable income and no close experience of a small child. Those inputs change, and the answer changes with them. Screening for it upfront discards a real person over a forecast. Plenty of parents were once certain they wanted none, and meant it.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
Staying friends with an ex is almost always a mistake
Refusing a prenup is emotionally immature, not romantic
The person who cares less holds all the power
Money problems end more marriages than cheating does
Always tell someone if their partner is cheating
A relationship without physical attraction is doomed to fail
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.