Staying friends with an ex is almost always a mistake
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
A shared history is real infrastructure. Someone who knows the family and the bad year stays useful long after the romance fades. Plenty of couples separate because the pairing was wrong while the affection held. Cutting that person loose discards a witness to years of a life. Co-parents and people in small towns manage it routinely. The awkwardness has an expiry date.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
Refusing a prenup is emotionally immature, not romantic
The person who cares less holds all the power
Money problems end more marriages than cheating does
Always tell someone if their partner is cheating
A relationship without physical attraction is doomed to fail
Work friends are not real friends
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.