Lifelong monogamy is the only legitimate relationship model
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
A relationship works by two adults agreeing on terms and keeping them. The terms do the binding. Exclusivity is one such term. Others build on open agreements, or on a decade that ends cleanly once both people have changed. Plenty of marriages last fifty years and hold two people in quiet contempt. Duration proves endurance and nothing else.
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Adjacent hills to die on
Infidelity is an automatic dealbreaker, no exceptions
Wanting kids is a legitimate dealbreaker in relationships
Staying friends with an ex is almost always a mistake
Refusing a prenup is emotionally immature, not romantic
The person who cares less holds all the power
Money problems end more marriages than cheating does
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.