Looks matter more than personality
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
Ranking the face first costs a person the partners who would have stayed. Attraction at a door lasts a week. What sustains it is the way someone handles a bad night or a delayed diagnosis. Faces also drift. The person who can make an ordinary Tuesday tolerable becomes more attractive every year. Anyone in a long relationship has watched this happen.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
You are morally obligated to leave once love fades
Lifelong monogamy is the only legitimate relationship model
Infidelity is an automatic dealbreaker, no exceptions
Wanting kids is a legitimate dealbreaker in relationships
Staying friends with an ex is almost always a mistake
Refusing a prenup is emotionally immature, not romantic
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.