Waiting for marriage is outdated advice
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
A couple two years in, sex from the first week, discovers they disagree about children only after the lease is signed. Physical intimacy is loud. It can mask a mismatch for years. Waiting forces the slow conversations early, and it tests commitment against boredom and ordinary weekday evenings. That mechanism has not aged. Restraint still tells people something about character.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
No one wants to bring home anything from your wedding
People need to stop inviting their random friends to outings
Held by Duardo (runs this site): “I did agree to hang out with my friends but no audition new ones.”
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take it $3People dramatically underestimate the opportunity cost of maintaining friendships
"Don't shit where you eat" is some of the worst dating advice
A relationship based on convenience is better than the true-love ideal
Living with your parents as an adult shouldn't be stigmatized
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.