A relationship based on convenience is better than the true-love ideal
Compatibility is logistics. Romance is marketing.
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
What gets surrendered is the reason to stay when the logistics stop working. Shared rent and matched schedules expire. Illness arrives. Someone loses a job and becomes inconvenient overnight. A bond built on wanting this particular person survives that, because the person was the point from the start. Convenience quietly makes each partner replaceable by anyone with a better lease and a nicer temperament.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
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Adjacent hills to die on
Living with your parents as an adult shouldn't be stigmatized
Saying "I don't like kids" is an acceptable phrase
Emotional affairs hurt more than physical ones
Marriage should come before children
Strict parenting produces more successful adults than permissive parenting
A work spouse is emotional cheating
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.