There is no right time to have a baby
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
The mother who goes back to work at six weeks because rent is due pays for that arithmetic. Timing is a real lever. Two years of saving can mean affordable childcare and an employer who holds the position open. Leave accrues. Debt gets cleared. A first year with some margin in it is a different first year.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
Waiting for marriage is outdated advice
No one wants to bring home anything from your wedding
People need to stop inviting their random friends to outings
Held by Duardo (runs this site): “I did agree to hang out with my friends but no audition new ones.”
$2
take it $3People dramatically underestimate the opportunity cost of maintaining friendships
"Don't shit where you eat" is some of the worst dating advice
A relationship based on convenience is better than the true-love ideal
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.