Living together before marriage is non-negotiable
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
A couple engaged across a border, waiting on a spousal visa, cannot share an address until the marriage itself is legal. Requiring cohabitation first would bar them from marrying at all. Those marriages last. The habits a trial run exposes, dishes and thermostats, get negotiated after the vows too, and both people keep changing for decades anyway.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
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Adjacent hills to die on
Splitting the bill on dates should always be mandatory
Looks matter more than personality
You are morally obligated to leave once love fades
Lifelong monogamy is the only legitimate relationship model
Infidelity is an automatic dealbreaker, no exceptions
Wanting kids is a legitimate dealbreaker in relationships
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.