Unconditional love is a myth that traps people in toxic relationships
This hill is unclaimed. Nobody is willing to die on it. Yet. First blood pending.
- Pay, and you hold it.
- Anyone can dethrone you for more.
- Every claim stays on the record.
No claims on the record.
The other side
A mother visits her son in prison every month for nine years. Nothing is being earned. That love holds without terms, and it is the reason he has anything to come back to. Leaving a cruel partner takes money and somewhere to sleep. Love without conditions still permits a locked door. The trap is the shortage of exits.
Tell me when this hill changes hands.
One email per change of hands. Unsubscribe link in every one.
Adjacent hills to die on
A chaotic partner beats boring stability
There is no right time to have a baby
Waiting for marriage is outdated advice
No one wants to bring home anything from your wedding
People need to stop inviting their random friends to outings
Held by Duardo (runs this site): “I did agree to hang out with my friends but no audition new ones.”
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take it $3People dramatically underestimate the opportunity cost of maintaining friendships
More relationships hills, all of them, or find one worth $1 of your convictions.